Scorpio sun, Aries Mars.. Temperment?

Well, I have my sun & mars in aries! I have no patience and a very bad temper, but it doesn't tend to last long. It's gotten better over the years, but that is a whole lot of Martian energy! My guy's sun is in scorpio and he has a bad temper, but is very good at hiding and controlling it. I've never seen him lose it and I've known him for 3 years. If you have this in your chart or know someone who does the key word is patience. With yourself or the person with this particular placement. Mars in Aries is a tough position, but it gives you energy and a strong will to succeed! However, combined with that solar scorpio energy I would think you would be able to control it better. Scorpios are powerful and often very successful because of their incredible focus. The mars in Aries would only add to that I think.